Archive for March, 2008

Catching up

Monday, March 31st, 2008

So I apologize for being so remiss in updating the blog. So much has happened … it’s hard know where to start.

So we’re at 6 months today. According to BabyCenter BR is growing about 1/4 lb per week – is just over a pound and the length of an ear of corn (just over 1 foot). I can feel movement pretty regularly now. Not everyday – but almost everyday. Still feels like gassy bubbles – no big thrusting kicks to the bladder … yet. I have all the regular symptoms of pregnancy (constipation, gas, cravings, sciatic and joint pain) and I’m close to being so big I can’t put on my own socks. Whew.

It’s completely amazing how quickly the last month has gone by! In a nutshell, here’s a recap:

Daddy rocked it outMomma enjoyed milkshakes and growing baby bump

 We celebrated our 3 year anniversary on March 20th. We went for a couple night stay at the McMenamin’s Grand Lodge. We enjoyed lots of grub (including milkshakes for Momma and beers’ for Daddy). I got a massage and we soaked in public tub. It was a short soak (don’t want to cook the babe) but relieved a lot of the pressure I had been feeling on my hips! It was nice to get away – but I realized I really like being at home. I like having access to all my food and comfy bed and kitties. I guess I’m nesting … ? Overall the time away was fun. Daddy and I enjoyed the mini-break – or “Babymoon” as they call it these days.

Baby Rhodes profile at 21 weeksOn March 10th we went in for a 2nd ultrasound – 21 weeks. We got the “all clear” from the Dr. – in fact BR received a “perfect” score on all things being baby – and Momma received an A+ for health at the Dr.s visit the next day. We turned away when the technician went to the “nether” regions – to keep the sex a secret and were fascinated by everything including the heartbeat and lens’ of the eyes. All measurements seemed to be on track. I am still having a very hard time picturing a little person in my belly … But it is very reassuring to know things are progressing nicely. More pics here.

Showers are being planned and with the pressure of “registering” I invited my friend Kim for a short visit to help. She came last week and was a lifesaver!! We ordered a crib (should be here in Baby's criba week or two) and a rocker (should be here in 10-12 weeks). We spent a full 2 exhausting hours at Babies R Us – where she helped me register for everything little BR and family will need. Thank GOODNESS she was there – I think I may have had a serious anxiety attack without her!! She was completely level-headed and kept me on track. We stuck to the practical stuff – though did add some cute clothes and blankets to the mix. She said I didn’t smile once the whole time we were there … well maybe once when we sat in the rockers to relax. So most of the registry is done (thank goodness). Still need to decide on bedding and a few other misc. stuff … but overall I’m happy that Babies R Us exists in the world! Daddy and I spent time this weekend trying to clear out part of the room that will probably be nursery … we didn’t get as far as I would like, but I think a garage sale may be needed for that. I am the culprit for sure when it comes to accumulation of stuff … Daddy is much less of a packrat!

Spring in February 08Hail on March 30thIt seems that Spring has come … and gone.  Spring in Portland is one of the most amazing I’ve experienced! Every day a new cherry blossom or magnolia tree has fully bloomed. It’s gorgeous. In February the blooming began – then last week it got cold again (snow, hail, cold temperatures). Last night we had a few inches of hail – which covered the ground like snow. Totally surreal.

 With the crib on the way in the next week or so … and my belly rapidly growing … Daddy and I have our work cut out for us in the next few weeks!

Momma out

Slow and Steady Wins the Race…

Monday, March 31st, 2008

TortoiseSo, yes, Tabitha and I have been quite slow in getting more news about Baby Rhodes up on the blog.  Since the last post, there has been another doctor’s visit with more ultrasound pics (no, we still have not caved in and discovered the sex of our child).  This weekend, we began the slow process of converting the office room into a nursery.  In our very tiny bungalow, there’s not much room for decor choices or any fung shui nonsense, so we have to be very smart about how things are arranged (too many trips to IKEA can be dangerous, you know).

One of Tab’s longtime BFF’s Kim came into town from the Bay to help her with the daunting task of baby registry.  Her assistance in this matter was greatly appreciated, and was an enormous stress-reducer for my wife.  Be sure and check the blog soon for baby registry info, along with links to the new ultrasound pics.  I will be adding a widget to the sidebar on the right so that you can keep up to date with all that stuff.

 That’s it for now.  Keep in touch!

5 months!

Monday, March 3rd, 2008

Well … we did it … make it 1/2 way. Today marks 5 months of baby rhodes growing in my belly. Amazing. The email I got today said it’s 6 1/2 inches crown to rump (10 inches from head to heel … the size of a banana).

I am not sure I’ve felt the babe move yet … I have felt flutters and flickers of activity but it’s hard to tell for sure if it’s babe or gas. I keep waiting for big kick in the bladder. From what I’ve read – the baby is moving alot – the movements just aren’t big enough to feel, or it’s facing the wrong way … I’m sure I’ll get plenty of movements in the next few months.

Other than that – I’m doing ok. I am growing at a rapid pace now … the fun symptoms of constipation, inability to get comfortable in bed, and hunger are in full force. But my Mom and girlfriends who’ve been through it are giving me good advice and keeping me laughing about it all … and of course reminding me that it’s all worth it!

Daddy is getting excited. He has sent me several websites to check out and reads up on the lates happenings with me. He’s gonna be such a good Dad … I’m a lucky Mama!

I’m looking forward to a visit from my friend Kim at the end of this month to register (I am scared to venture into Babies R Us without a chaperone … I may just run screaming). My derby girls are already asking me to check out fun punky baby stuff and make lists … little BR will definitely be one stylish badass!

Ah .. Spa

Saturday, March 1st, 2008

So for Christmas, Daddy bought me a gift certificate for Spa Willamina which I have put off using because I wanted to save it for a time when I was feeling sore and tired and needed re-energizing. Well, yesterday I decided it was time … so I called them (expecting them to be booked for 2 weeks) and imagine my joy when they told me they’d had cancellations that day and could see me after work! YAY!

I went in and had the most amazing and relaxing moisturizing facial and tension releasing massage. I learned I am not taking deep enough breaths and sitting at a computer all day makes for sore and tight muscles. She helped relieve some of the pain I’ve been having in my right butt cheek (sciatic nerve) and tension in my shoulders. It was wonderful!!

Now I LOVE spas and massages … but another first for me … I actually felt a little guilty about being there and spending money and time on myself. When the masseuse told me that many moms-to-be actually receive gift certificates but don’t use them … and how wonderful she thought it was that I was taking that time for me … it got me thinking that maybe I was being a little self-serving. Daddy actually brought me back when he said I deserved it and that being relaxed was good for the baby … happy Mama = happy Babe.

Though I was a little sore last night and this morning … I definitely feel more relaxed in general and will be going for future massages as the pregnancy continues!